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Old November 12th, 2017, 05:06 PM   #11
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Yes I think this is true and I think perceptions are different about many things between men and woman. For example. Years ago I was at work and walking through the shop area of my workplace towards the office area with a female coworker. she had given notice and it was her last day. As we walked together she reached over and grabbed my butt. She took a good long hold and looked at me smiled and said nothing.

Now when I tell this story to everybody man and woman they all have the same reaction. Can you tell me what your reaction is here?
Why did you let her have "a good long hold?"
I'd have immediately checked my wallet.
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Why did you let her have "a good long hold?"
Maybe I was dressed in a provocative manner right?
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Maybe I was dressed in a provocative manner right?
WTF is wrong with you? I'm supposed to take this shit seriously?
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Old November 12th, 2017, 05:13 PM   #14
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WTF is wrong with you? I'm supposed to take this shit seriously?
That's the spirit!
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Old November 12th, 2017, 05:16 PM   #15
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Typically, the perpetrator has a different take on a situation than a victim.

Most of the women I questioned had one or more experiences in which they spotted men staring at them and masturbating when they were at the beach, or in the park, or somewhere they'd be in a swimsuit. My wife initially told me of several "encounters" she'd had and she maintained it was a common experience. I didn't believe her. I said, "Well, maybe in Ukraine....."

On top of that, women in general are smaller and weaker than men. They're constantly surrounded by people bigger, stronger, louder, and oftentimes more prone to violence than they are.

Imo, things are tougher for women now than when we were young.
The other thing that I notice all the time, is some fat old white man who isn't even close to rich starts hassling some young, good looking woman but in his mind she likes it. The fools actually delude themselves into thinking the victim likes it.

Mind you, young ugly guys do that too.
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Typically, the perpetrator has a different take on a situation than a victim.

Most of the women I questioned had one or more experiences in which they spotted men staring at them and masturbating when they were at the beach, or in the park, or somewhere they'd be in a swimsuit. My wife initially told me of several "encounters" she'd had and she maintained it was a common experience. I didn't believe her. I said, "Well, maybe in Ukraine....."

On top of that, women in general are smaller and weaker than men. They're constantly surrounded by people bigger, stronger, louder, and oftentimes more prone to violence than they are.

Imo, things are tougher for women now than when we were young.
In the case of a man masturbating in public that is clearly not "sexual pressure" but rather a case of indecent exposure. Call a cop, THEY are usually pretty large and strong and they are carrying a firearm and have legal authority. Even if the guy lies his way out of it, not enough witnesses, etc. he has the ever-loving shit embarrassed out of him and he is brought to the official attention of the police.
I do not understand why a woman viewing that would NOT immediately call a cop.
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The other thing that I notice all the time, is some fat old white man who isn't even close to rich starts hassling some young, good looking woman but in his mind she likes it. The fools actually delude themselves into thinking the victim likes it.

Mind you, young ugly guys do that too.
I've really been watching male-female interactions since 2012 when my wife clued me in.

I see stuff like you mention and lots more almost every day and I feel dumb for not noticing this until I was in my 60s.
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WTF is wrong with you? I'm supposed to take this shit seriously?
So nothing to see here right?
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In the case of a man masturbating in public that is clearly not "sexual pressure" but rather a case of indecent exposure. Call a cop, THEY are usually pretty large and strong and they are carrying a firearm and have legal authority. Even if the guy lies his way out of it, not enough witnesses, etc. he has the ever-loving shit embarrassed out of him and he is brought to the official attention of the police.
I do not understand why a woman viewing that would NOT immediately call a cop.
Dude, my wife had such experiences in the train stations late at night. What are ya going to do?

"Hey mister, wait right here. I'm going to get a cop."

Another friend looked up at the ridge above the beach, and there's a guy whacking off. What was she to do?

And then there are the advances by friends and neighbors and people in authority like Mr. Moore.

HW my friend, your denial of this unfortunately makes you part of the problem.
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Dude, my wife had such experiences in the train stations late at night. What are ya going to do?

"Hey mister, wait right here. I'm going to get a cop."

Another friend looked up at the ridge above the beach, and there's a guy whacking off. What was she to do?

And then there are the advances by friends and neighbors and people in authority like Mr. Moore.

HW my friend, your denial of this unfortunately makes you part of the problem.
No denial on my part. Did i say such things did NOT happen? No, I did not.
Did i not acknowledge that indeed women could indeed feel that way?
I only questioned the term "constant sexual pressure" and pointed out that that what was described was a crime and that we do have police departments.

There are ways to deflect unwanted advances. Many years ago I drank and could have fairly been described as a "lounge Lizard" (it was the 70's). I was out hitting bars with a friend, who happened to be drunker than I. He walked up to an attractive woman at the bar and said, "Babe, I'd sure like to get into your pants." She put her drink down, coldy looked him up and down and said, "why, you shit in yours?" He slunk off to the laughter of everyone there w/o another word.

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