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Old July 2nd, 2012, 09:27 AM   #1
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It won't be a surprise to anyone that Anderson Cooper is gay, but apparently he's been out in his personal life for a long time but not as a public matter since it could interfere with his journalism.



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Last week, Entertainment Weekly ran a story on an emerging trend: gay people in public life who come out in a much more restrained and matter-of-fact way than in the past. In many ways, it's a great development: we're evolved enough not to be gob-smacked when we find out someone's gay. But it does matter nonetheless, it seems to me, that this is on the record. We still have pastors calling for the death of gay people, bullying incidents and suicides among gay kids, and one major political party dedicated to ending the basic civil right to marry the person you love. So these "non-events" are still also events of a kind; and they matter. The visibility of gay people is one of the core means for our equality.



All of which is a prelude to my saying that I've known Anderson Cooper as a friend for more than two decades. I asked him for his feedback on this subject, for reasons that are probably obvious to most. Here's his email in response which he has given me permission to post here:



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Andrew, as you know, the issue you raise is one that I've thought about for years. Even though my job puts me in the public eye, I have tried to maintain some level of privacy in my life. Part of that has been for purely personal reasons. I think most people want some privacy for themselves and the people they are close to.



But I've also wanted to retain some privacy for professional reasons. Since I started as a reporter in war zones 20 years ago, I've often found myself in some very dangerous places. For my safety and the safety of those I work with, I try to blend in as much as possible, and prefer to stick to my job of telling other peopleís stories, and not my own. I have found that sometimes the less an interview subject knows about me, the better I can safely and effectively do my job as a journalist.



I've always believed that who a reporter votes for, what religion they are, who they love, should not be something they have to discuss publicly. As long as a journalist shows fairness and honesty in his or her work, their private life shouldn't matter. Iíve stuck to those principles for my entire professional career, even when Iíve been directly asked ďthe gay question,Ē which happens occasionally. I did not address my sexual orientation in the memoir I wrote several years ago because it was a book focused on war, disasters, loss and survival. I didn't set out to write about other aspects of my life.



Recently, however, Iíve begun to consider whether the unintended outcomes of maintaining my privacy outweigh personal and professional principle. Itís become clear to me that by remaining silent on certain aspects of my personal life for so long, I have given some the mistaken impression that I am trying to hide something - something that makes me uncomfortable, ashamed or even afraid. This is distressing because it is simply not true.



Iíve also been reminded recently that while as a society we are moving toward greater inclusion and equality for all people, the tide of history only advances when people make themselves fully visible. There continue to be far too many incidences of bullying of young people, as well as discrimination and violence against people of all ages, based on their sexual orientation, and I believe there is value in making clear where I stand.



The fact is, I'm gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldnít be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud.



I have always been very open and honest about this part of my life with my friends, my family, and my colleagues. In a perfect world, I don't think it's anyone else's business, but I do think there is value in standing up and being counted. Iím not an activist, but I am a human being and I don't give that up by being a journalist.



Since my early days as a reporter, I have worked hard to accurately and fairly portray gay and lesbian people in the media - and to fairly and accurately portray those who for whatever reason disapprove of them. It is not part of my job to push an agenda, but rather to be relentlessly honest in everything I see, say and do. Iíve never wanted to be any kind of reporter other than a good one, and I do not desire to promote any cause other than the truth.



Being a journalist, traveling to remote places, trying to understand people from all walks of life, telling their stories, has been the greatest joy of my professional career, and I hope to continue doing it for a long time to come. But while I feel very blessed to have had so many opportunities as a journalist, I am also blessed far beyond having a great career.

I love, and I am loved.



In my opinion, the ability to love another person is one of Godís greatest gifts, and I thank God every day for enabling me to give and share love with the people in my life. I appreciate your asking me to weigh in on this, and I would be happy for you to share my thoughts with your readers. I still consider myself a reserved person and I hope this doesnít mean an end to a small amount of personal space. But I do think visibility is important, more important than preserving my reporterís shield of privacy.





In general I think the more gay folks who are out the better it will be for gay kids being raised by homophobic parents, as well as reducing bigotry in society as a whole. But I can see why a journalist wouldn't want himself to be the story, especially in some of the profoundly homophobic places Anderson sometimes reports from.
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No surprise there, he always looked and acted very gay.



It can only benefit his career to be fashionably homosexual and CNN have yet another token gay on their team, far above the statistical average.



It's almost as though they discriminate in favour of homosexuals......................



Let's hope he can now confront his problem and get help for this sad affliction.
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A lot of the guys on FUX 'News' come across as mighty gay.
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No surprise there, he always looked and acted very gay.



It can only benefit his career to be fashionably homosexual and CNN have yet another token gay on their team, far above the statistical average.



It's almost as though they discriminate in favour of homosexuals......................



Let's hope he can now confront his problem and get help for this sad affliction.


I bet that you look and act gay.



I bet people think you are gay...and even if you aren't gay, the fact that people have always thought so is why you hate gays so much.
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No surprise there, he always looked and acted very gay.



It can only benefit his career to be fashionably homosexual and CNN have yet another token gay on their team, far above the statistical average.



It's almost as though they discriminate in favour of homosexuals......................



Let's hope he can now confront his problem and get help for this sad affliction.


I bet that you look and act gay.



I bet people think you are gay...and even if you aren't gay, the fact that people have always thought so is why you hate gays so much.




Don't bet your manicure money on that honeybunch.



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[quote name='gary' timestamp='1341248607' post='410456']

No surprise there, he always looked and acted very gay.



It can only benefit his career to be fashionably homosexual and CNN have yet another token gay on their team, far above the statistical average.



It's almost as though they discriminate in favour of homosexuals......................



Let's hope he can now confront his problem and get help for this sad affliction.


I bet that you look and act gay.



I bet people think you are gay...and even if you aren't gay, the fact that people have always thought so is why you hate gays so much.




Don't bet your manicure money on that honeybunch.



Women marvel at my gentlemanly demeanour and masculine physique whilst tough men cower in trepidation.

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I actually threw up in my mouth a little after reading that.



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[quote name='knowuryder' timestamp='1341258935' post='410500']

[quote name='gary' timestamp='1341248607' post='410456']

No surprise there, he always looked and acted very gay.



It can only benefit his career to be fashionably homosexual and CNN have yet another token gay on their team, far above the statistical average.



It's almost as though they discriminate in favour of homosexuals......................



Let's hope he can now confront his problem and get help for this sad affliction.


I bet that you look and act gay.



I bet people think you are gay...and even if you aren't gay, the fact that people have always thought so is why you hate gays so much.




Don't bet your manicure money on that honeybunch.



Women marvel at my gentlemanly demeanour and masculine physique whilst tough men cower in trepidation.

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I actually threw up in my mouth a little after reading that.



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Stop flirting, you guys.
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[quote name='gary' timestamp='1341248607' post='410456']

No surprise there, he always looked and acted very gay.



It can only benefit his career to be fashionably homosexual and CNN have yet another token gay on their team, far above the statistical average.



It's almost as though they discriminate in favour of homosexuals......................



Let's hope he can now confront his problem and get help for this sad affliction.


I bet that you look and act gay.



I bet people think you are gay...and even if you aren't gay, the fact that people have always thought so is why you hate gays so much.




Don't bet your manicure money on that honeybunch.



Women marvel at my gentlemanly demeanour and masculine physique whilst tough men cower in trepidation.

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How about a photo?
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[quote name='knowuryder' timestamp='1341258935' post='410500']

[quote name='gary' timestamp='1341248607' post='410456']

No surprise there, he always looked and acted very gay.



It can only benefit his career to be fashionably homosexual and CNN have yet another token gay on their team, far above the statistical average.



It's almost as though they discriminate in favour of homosexuals......................



Let's hope he can now confront his problem and get help for this sad affliction.


I bet that you look and act gay.



I bet people think you are gay...and even if you aren't gay, the fact that people have always thought so is why you hate gays so much.




Don't bet your manicure money on that honeybunch.



Women marvel at my gentlemanly demeanour and masculine physique whilst tough men cower in trepidation.

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How about a photo?

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HA! are you kidding me? The irony is that gary won't post a photo because he is a coward and believes it will open him to ridicule, when in fact the only person here would stoop so low as to make fun of someone because of the way they look is him.
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