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Old February 15th, 2018, 04:11 PM   #31
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Some people simply do not like being touched by strangers. Or by certain people they know for that matter. I agree that a hug can be good for you. It can be comforting. It can make you feel better. When it is wanted. When it isn't, it's a totally different experience.

I think that what is going on in our culture is that sexual abuse has become a more open topic. We no longer refer to pedophiles as 'funny uncles' and simply keep kids away from them without telling them why any more and rape victims are no longer.....for the most part....treated as if they must have done something to deserve it.

I spent a few years working with mentally challenged adults myself. We also had a 'no touch' policy. It was more for our sake than the clients. Mentally challenges adults are like children. It's not difficult to get them to say whatever you want. Remember the McMartin Preschool case?
McMartin and Fells Acres were modern day witch hunts, instead of "spectral Evidence" the prosecution used "recovered memories", with the same result, innocent people were imprisoned and ruined to further the careers of the prosecutors.
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Old February 15th, 2018, 04:39 PM   #32
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I didn't used to worry about hugs from old men. Then they invented Viagra.
C'mon, my friend, and be honest with me.
Do you think that SOME women are secretly, and some not so secretly, pissed by the fact that Viagra is available?

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C'mon, my friend, and be honest with me.
Do you think that SOME women are secretly, and some not so secretly, pissed by the fact that Viagra is available?
You bet. I can name a several women I know who wish it had never been developed.
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McMartin and Fells Acres were modern day witch hunts, instead of "spectral Evidence" the prosecution used "recovered memories", with the same result, innocent people were imprisoned and ruined to further the careers of the prosecutors.
I don't know about 'to further the careers of prosecutors' but I agree with everything else you said.

I think it started innocently enough....a parent concerned about their child.....and then became a snowball from hell.

We had an incident at the center where I worked with mentally disabled adults. One dumb ass mother let her daughter wear her (the mothers) expensive ruby earrings one day. The disabled woman came home without them. The woman was non verbal so she couldn't tell her mother what happened to them, so the mother started asking "Did so and so take them". Like any child, after shaking her head 'no' a dozen or so times she realized that 'no' wasn't making mom happy so with the next person mom listed she nodded yes. Luckily for the person named, she was out sick that day. We never did find out what actually happened to the earrings.
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You bet. I can name a several women I know who wish it had never been developed.
Why ?
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Why ?
One was married to a sexual addict and......well, lets just say Viagra made things harder on her.

One's husband took Viagra and had a heart attack.

Several were post menopause and didn't have much interest in sex but Viagra basically turned their husbands back into teenage boys.

For most of them, Viagra basically turned having sex from love making to a command performance.

Except for the one whose hubby had a heart attack, when it came to sex.......they were all married to jerks who cared more about their pleasure than anything else. Viagra enabled them to be even bigger assholes.
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One was married to a sexual addict and......well, lets just say Viagra made things harder on her.

One's husband took Viagra and had a heart attack.

Several were post menopause and didn't have much interest in sex but Viagra basically turned their husbands back into teenage boys.

For most of them, Viagra basically turned having sex from love making to a command performance.

Except for the one whose hubby had a heart attack, when it came to sex.......they were all married to jerks who cared more about their pleasure than anything else. Viagra enabled them to be even bigger assholes.

A little off topic, but our niece was married to a dentist (with his own practice) who had an affair with his receptionist. When the affair became public, our niece divorced the jerk and took him to the cleaners. After Lisa had cooled off we were having a conversation one day and she said, "Men are so easy and so stupid. It's like they have TWO heads and they THINK with the small one."

LOVE IT!
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Why ?
Oh, you know the answer to that as well as I do. For some reason after a time some women look at sex as a bothersome "chore" they just don't want to be bothered with any longer. Happened to a friend of mine when his wife went into menopause, she just told him one day that she was "done with sex."
Then, believe it or not, she got pissed when he went and got a girlfriend who did not mind having sex with him at all.
You just can'r please some people.
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Oh, you know the answer to that as well as I do. For some reason after a time some women look at sex as a bothersome "chore" they just don't want to be bothered with any longer. Happened to a friend of mine when his wife went into menopause, she just told him one day that she was "done with sex."
Then, believe it or not, she got pissed when he went and got a girlfriend who did not mind having sex with him at all.
You just can'r please some people.
It happens to a great deal of women after menopause. The hormones are no longer there and the sex drive left with them. It's one of the 'big female secrets' we don't tell men.


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It happens to a great deal of women after menopause. The hormones are no longer there and the sex drive left with them. It's one of the 'big female secrets' we don't tell men.


Oops.
LOL..yeah, women tend to forget to mention little things like that it seems.
There are treatments for it.
We don't tell you guy that's just because you decide your sex life is over we feel no special obligation to end ours.
STILL don't understand why my late friends wife was pissed off that he gave some other woman something that she didn't even want any longer. She should have been happy about it.

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