- Sep 2015
- Stage Left
its not always that easy, and for many women the natural response is to "freeze". its only been recently studied and looked into, and is a greater cause of shame for those who do freeze. its a horrifying experience, and can make some survivors even less likely to report because of the guilt, shame and blame they add to themselves for not "doing" something.This is just my personal opinion, but I think that women should be more physicaly agressive is such situations. If one is alone with a man in such a situation and the man "grabs" the first thing she should do is SCREAM just as loudly as she can TAKE YOUR FUCKING HANDS off me!!!
If that does not make the man immediately retreat I'd suggest kicking him in the cajones as hard as possible.
Quietly walking out of the room as if nothing has happened and later filing a complaint with the HR does not always work. SOME men take a LACK of immediate and agressive resistence/retaliation as a form of permission.
Just an opinion.