That's not what I really meant...but you have a valid point. Mum freaked out? Tell her you can still marry a doctuh...you're right - I should have written: No - you see my name and you READ gayness into what I write.
I feel there's a huge difference between having a gay avatar (I don't care who knows I'm gay - I've told my mother, so who am I supposed to be afraid of knowing?) and constantly writing about being gay as the Mustang accused me of doing - and which I heartily deny.