My threads in this forum are the result of the thread about women being pissed. We have to stop beating each other up. We have to learn about our humanness and how to live with it without destroying ourselves, each other, and the only planet we have. Two of the strongest factors in our lives are fear and shame and we need to get over this. Good manners is about creating a safe environment and only when we feel safe can we be creative and authentic and if we don't start working together on this, we can destroy our civilization and our planet. So let us take a look at shame and vulnerability.